June 30, 2012

What is going on in the world?

Katie Holmes finally wakes up and realises that marriage to a gay Scientologist is not all that it is cracked up to be. Katie is seeking sole custody of 6 year old Suri. Apparently - the pair disagreed on matters relating to raising her.

The judge that makes this decision really only needs the answer to one question;

Whose idea was high heels on a 3 year old!?!?



Johnny Depp leaves his partner of 14 years - and the mother of his children - for her Lesbian look a like who just happens to be 24 years his junior.


Gee - that is going to last.

John Travolta is accused AGAIN of being a cross dressing masseuse molester.


It might be wise for John to invest in one of these right about now;


I can't help feeling a bit ripped off that i spent my pre-teens practising the art of kissing on his image on my Grease album cover.



We Know What You're Doing

Embarrassing status updates exposed

WKWYD's search tool scours Facebook and Foursquare for key words such as "hungover" and "cannabis" and divides the findings into four categories: "Who wants to get fired?", "Who's hungover?", "Who's taking drugs?" and "Who's got a new phone number?".

The so-called "social networking privacy experiment" is the brainchild of 18-year-old web developer Callum Haywood. The British teenager's creation is proving incredibly popular. According to Haywood's Twitter feed, WKWYD attracted over 100,000 people in its first 27 hours.
"I created the website to make people aware of the issues that is created when they post such information on Facebook without any privacy settings enabled," Haywood told CNN. "The people featured on the site are most likely not aware that what they post as 'public' can be seen by absolutely anybody, and that Facebook will happily give away this information to other websites via its Graph API."
While those featured on WKWYD may be surprised to find themselves on the site, the web developer hasn't used any published information that users haven't already revealed publicly.
In a post on its website, computer security site Sophos claims that there's "nothing slimy or hackerish" about Haywood's experiment.
Sophos also argues that the responsibility for potentially damaging status updates lies not with Facebook, but with users. "At the very least, people have got to start paying attention to Facebook's privacy settings."
Social media expert Jenna Price agrees. "You need to be really careful of your online presence because it's your reputation," says the University of Technology Sydney academic. "When you go online and trash your reputation, and you do it yourself, you've only got yourself to blame."
According to the University of Technology academic, the public have been given countless warnings about the dangers of failing to protect their privacy online, but many have failed to heed the warnings. To Price, WKWYD  is using humour deliver an important message. "I think if it draws attention to complete abject stupidity that's a good thing."
WKWYD is not the first site to highlight the risks of oversharing online. Please Rob Me collated public check-ins from social networking services to announce when users would be away from home. Another social media aggregator, Openbook, makes it possible to search public Facebook status updates in real time.


That is hilarious.

I wish i had thought of it.

I would have probably ended up attracting the nutty lawyers and their sock puppets again - but it would have been fun!


http://www.weknowwhatyouredoing.com/


Mid Winter at Awhitu Peninsula

Awhitu Peninsula: Night lights




A couple of toddlers sit guard over a dozen glass jars, painted with pink and silver glitter and embellishments. The children shiver in the cold air, staunchly refusing warm jackets as they wait for instructions.
A mum from the Manukau Peninsula Playcentre tries in vain to light the tea lights in the wind, finally managing to get them to catch alight more than momentarily in the jars.
Each child is given a lantern of a different shape, size and colour before heading hesitantly up creaky wooden floorboards in the dark to where lightkeeper Paul Dixon is waiting. He is good-natured as he coaxes the lanterns from their hands and places the jars close to the prisms.
"Most children will never forget this event," says Dixon, who's counting on moments like these to forge a lifelong connection between local children and his beloved lighthouse, one of the few you can climb to the top and walk around.
"Even in a gale, when everything's banging and clattering, this ceremony is still special: it's a rare and raw night."
"The children are the future keepers of the light," says Dixon's wife Sue...Read More


That article made me miss Waiuku and living out in the country - so i thought i would share it!

I think i will make a mental note to take T's kids to this next year - since mine are too old and way too cool to do anything like this with me.

How gorgeous is that lighthouse...

Have a great Saturday you lot.

June 28, 2012

Justice for Kim Dotcom

Dotcom searches illegal

The High Court has ruled the police raid on internet entrepreneur Kim Dotcom's Auckland mansion was illegal and the removal from New Zealand of cloned copies of hard drives seized was unlawful. 
Justice Helen Winkelmann found the warrants used did not adequately describe the offences to which they were related.
"Indeed they fell well short of that. They were general warrants, and as such, are invalid.''


That is awesome news.

Now give him back his stuff.



They still don't get it...

Three weeks after Judge Harvey's ruling -  two Lawyers, and an Accountant are still unable to get it.

While it is very difficult to read outright lies about myself and my behaviour on the internet - and to the best of my ability i avoid reading the lies that they and their sock puppets are publishing anywhere and everywhere that will allow it  - i find it unbelievable that these women are still running around the internet obsessing over me. 

After threatening me that "God's sword of vengeance via the Justice System was about to be meted out on me" -

They lost.

I won.

No amount of lying about me will change that.

Debbie Brown and Madeleine Flannagan can wrap it up however they want but that does not change the facts - Madeleine Flannagan and Simon Buckingham could not even win a case where the respondent had no lawyer and did not even appear to defend herself.

They can spend three more weeks, months, years, even decades spreading their lies via thousand word comments on blogs, but that won't change the fact that I only need two words.

CASE. DISMISSED. 

Get over it - you "reasonably happy" liars.


June 27, 2012

I had to google "carpetbagger"

Henare wins apology from Wikipedia over blocking

National MP Tau Henare has won an apology from Wikipedia over changes to the website's article about him.
Anyone can edit the online encyclopaedia and John Creser, a former associate, has admitted adding descriptions on multiple occasions of Mr Henare as a "carpetbagger".
Mr Creser listed his source as a blog posting about Mr Henare having stood for New Zealand First and Mauri Pacific before National.

 carpetbagger
n carpetbagger [ˈkaːpitˌbagə, (American ) ˈka:rpitˌbagər]
politician who moves to a place where he/she sees an opportunity to promote his/her career.

So what...

There are a lot worse things that John Creser could have said about Tau.

The guy has numerous blogs in all sorts of peoples' honours - including Wellington lawyer Roger Chapman's - with the url rogeredchapman - entitled "Criminal Breach of Trust".

Tau Henare should stop googling his own name and be grateful that John Creser has not considered him worthy of blogging revenge - yet!


Keep trying

In Discipleship Journal Paul Thigpen writes: 'I remember coming home one afternoon to discover that the kitchen I had worked so hard to clean only a few hours before, was now a terrible wreck. My young daughter had obviously been busy 'cooking' and the ingredients were scattered, along with dirty bowls and utensils, across the counters and floor. I was not happy with the situation. Then, as I looked a little more closely at the mess I spied a tiny note on the table, clumsily written and smeared with chocolaty fingerprints. The message was short - 'I'm makin sumthin 4 you, Dad' - and it was signed, 'Your Angel.' In the midst of that disarray, and despite my irritation, joy suddenly sprang up in my heart, sweet and pure. My attention had been redirected from the problem to the little girl I loved. As I encountered her in that brief note, I delighted in her. With her simple goodness in focus, I could take pleasure in seeing her hand at work in the situation that seemed otherwise disastrous.'

In the parable of the talents, Jesus pointed out that the two servants who invested and multiplied what had been entrusted to them received the Master's highest commendation: 'Well done, good and faithful servant.' On the other hand, the servant who buried his gifts rather than risk and lose, received the Master's harshest condemnation: '...You wicked and lazy servant...' (Matthew 25:26 NKJV).

Commendation or condemnation: which will you receive? God doesn't say, 'If you can't do it right, don't do it at all.' No, He's pleased when you try, make mistakes, learn from them and grow. So keep trying!


I have been so tired ever since i finished that last assignment on Saturday night. It has been unreal. I feel like i could sleep, and sleep, and then sleep some more. Maybe that has something to do with the weather being so bad that it feels dark all day and it just not being worth going outside.

Even Nixon - who is usually waiting at the door to race outside from about 6am - just sits at the door and stares at me when i open the door to let him out.

I think i got so used to having to focus on studying and assignments that i am now feeling a bit lost without something to focus on.I am missing having an assignment to work on. I have been amazed at how much i have learned from the research that has been involved in each one. It seems the more i learn, the more i realise how little i know!

I am really looking forward to next term. My Clinical Practice and Professional Development paper involves a placement. I am really looking forward to gaining that practical experience. 

For now though - i have a few more days of trying to find things around my home to clean, taking long nanna naps, and waiting for more of my results from last term!

I think i will start on the girls' room today. They reminded me of how bad it is the other day when they put this on my Facebook page;


My girls' idea of funny. Unfortunately their room really does look like the bottom left - blue bucket and all!


June 25, 2012

Netball is hazardous in Taumarunui!

Un. Believe. Able.

Man knifed after row at netball

A "barbaric" brawl that erupted between two feuding families after a school netball game in Taumarunui ended with a man being rushed to hospital with a knife protruding from his chest.
The 18-year-old, from Taumarunui, was flown to Waikato Hospital after the fight broke out at a home on Taupo Rd, about 1.30pm on Saturday.
Ruapehu police Area Commander Inspector Steve Mastrovich said the incident sparked from comments between two men from opposing families at a children's netball game earlier in the day, in which one called the other a nark and threatened to kill him.
"The people who were threatened took umbrage at that and went back and spoke to the other family and friends," he said.
"They sallied forth to the other people's house – didn't take any weapons with them – but they had a couple of stubbies that they were drinking out of that happened to be to hand."
Words were exchanged and the tension between both groups escalated; fists started flying and a fight broke out.
"The people who had arrived at the house used bottles and some hunks of wood that were lying outside the house and bits of firewood as weapons of opportunity and threw them at members of the family that they wanted to assault," Mr Mastrovich said.
The "combatants" were aged in their late-teens and older, and included at least one woman.
In the ensuing fracas an 18-year-old man of the family who lived at the house rushed inside, grabbed a large boning knife from the kitchen and stabbed it into the chest of a man from the rival family.
Several neighbours alerted police to the violence, and officers arrived just as the stabbing victim and his entourage were leaving.
He was rushed to hospital for urgent medical care before being flown to Waikato Hospital.

And to think i thought the worst that could happen at a netball game was having to endure a pop up woman and the ensuing pneumonia like illness that followed standing around outside - in the wind and the rain - getting soaked to the bone from head to toe!

Put. Down. The. Booze. 

How did Kim Dotcom get lumped in with this sad lot?

Who don't we trust...
Destiny Church leader Brian Tamaki, MegaUpload founder Kim Dotcom, and former Pike River mine manager Peter Whittall have found themselves in the unenviable company of politicians in a list of people we trust least.
Brian Tamaki, self-appointed bishop of the Destiny Church, is New Zealand's least-trusted public figure in the annual Reader's Digest poll.
For close company he has Mana Party leader Hone Harawira, internet tycoon Dotcom, former justice minister and finance company director Sir Douglas Graham, NZ First leader Winston Peter, and former Whanganui mayor Michael Laws. Mr Whittall rounds out the bottom 10.

I do not understand how a legend like Kim Dotcom made it on to that list of sorry names.

John Banks should take his place.

June 24, 2012

Neighbours at War

Woman tries to stop TV episode

The owner of a charity animal shelter has accused the makers ofNeighbours at War of trying to bully her into appearing on the reality TV series.
Carolyn Press McKenzie is worried the episode, due to screen on TV2 tomorrow night, will renew ill feeling with her neighbours over the killing of her pet goat, Colonel Stinky, last year.
She has even called in her lawyer to try to get an injunction to stop the broadcast.
However, TVNZ spokeswoman Megan Richards said the production team behind the show had taken "more than usual care to prepare a story that is fair and balanced".

Threats of legal proceedings and attempted injunctions are one way to increase this lame TV show's ratings.
 
I bet the producers are loving Ms. Press Mckenzie right now. 

On a more serious note - RIP Colonel Stinky - the pet goat.
 
I might actually watch Neighbours at War - for the first time ever - tomorrow night. 

June 23, 2012

Term One All Done!

I have just completed my Motivational Interviewing essay which is due on Monday and my final assignment for this term.

The last few weeks have been a TON of work. I have completed three essays and two exams in the last two weeks.

I cannot believe i managed all that. It feels so good to have it all done.

Waiting for my grades is going to be the Longest. Wait. Ever.

Now i have a break until July 2nd before classes resume again. It will be nice for T and i to have a work / study / kid free weekend next weekend. We have not yet done anything to celebrate our one year anniversary so maybe next weekend we will be able to do something special.

For now though - he is still slogging away on his version of the same assignment that i just completed. It had a 2000 word limit and true to form / his personality - he managed to spill over 3000 words into his paper before finishing. Now he is having to delete stuff.

What on Earth will i do now to keep myself busy for the next week or so? I am sure i will find some mischief.

I nearly forgot - if you are interested - you can read a very unbiased and impartial view of the legal proceedings that i have just been subjected to and the judgement that Judge Harvey made by someone who has read all 251 paragraphs of it.

Madeleine Flannagan and Debbie Brown's sock puppets have put it online - on their behalf. I would have put it online myself however Judge Harvey had said that he did not think that would be a good idea - and i did not want to be accused of causing anyone who claims to be "fragile" any "distress".

I was gobsmacked that those women claimed to be so distressed by my anonymous blogging of my interactions with them - yet don't mind all their personal information and dirty laundry out there for the world to see - but then i thought about it...

I shouldn't really be surprised at this proof that their claims of "distress" were disingenuous - should i ? Most of what they included in their affidavits was false.

Why would they have been honest about their "distress" ?



Lame Legal Brain - Part 3

LLB Part 3 - Day of shame for disgraced lawyer



Disgraced Hastings barrister Sacha Beacham has received her fifth conviction since 2002 and been told by a judge that a person in her position should have known better than try to intervene when police were doing their job.
After her appearance, Beacham, 40, hurled abuse at photographers outside the court and screamed at the top of her voice while walking through the Hastings CBD.
She stopped outside the Hawke's Bay Today newspaper offices to yell, "Shame on you, Hawke's Bay Today," and said she was heading to the pub if media wanted to take another photo.

I wish the Herald had managed to get that scene on video.

I hope she had an enjoyable drink at the pub. I am sure that would have solved all of her problems.


Beacham was travelling as a passenger in her male friend's Volvo, which was pulled over about 2.15am.
Beacham took offence when her associate was asked to accompany police after he failed an initial breath-alcohol test.
She abused police and told them to "shut the ******* door" and "**** off".
After repeatedly ignoring their requests, she tried to avoid being handcuffed and grabbed hold of the Volvo's wipers. She continued to hurl abuse.
She was charged with resisting police, obstruction and disorderly behaviour. A charge of performing an indecent act with intent to offend was also laid, related to an incident that night in the Napier police station.


I want to know what indecent act she performed for the Police. The mind boggles!

I think it is fair to say that Ms. Beacham is in the "pre-contemplative" stage of the wheel of change.

Repent

God's patience is amazing! In one of the most extraordinary examples of it, He gave Jezebel time to repent. When her wicked husband Ahab humbled himself, God healed and restored him. Humbling yourself before God will turn things around in your life when nothing else will work. James writes: 'Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He shall lift you up' (James 4:10 KJV). Humble yourself - don't wait for God to do it!

The Bible says: 'Do not make light of the Lord's discipline, and do not lose heart when He rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines those He loves, and punishes everyone He accepts as a son' (Hebrews 12:5-6 NIV). Notice two important statements in this Scripture: (1) 'Do not make light of the Lord's discipline.' A 'nobody's going to tell me what to do' attitude cost Jezebel dearly, and it will cost you too! (2) 'Do not lose heart when He rebukes you.' Don't see God's correction as rejection, see it as proof that you're His child and that He has great plans for you. Paul considered himself a bondservant to Christ. To be bonded means to be bound by certain obligations. In the Old Testament, God marked His priests by putting blood on the lobe of their right ear, the thumb of their right hand, and the big toe of their right foot.

So the word for today is - your hearing, your talents, and your walk must honour God! As a bondservant to Christ, you can't 'do your own thing'; you're called to walk according to His instructions. If you're not - repent and get right with God!

I have 500 words left to do of the 3rd of my three essays that i have had due in the past week. This one is due on Monday at 3pm.

I will be glad when i am done. Since June 8th i have had two exams and three essays to complete. I am looking forward to a bit of a break before classes resume again on July 2nd.

I really am.

Critiquing my own performance in my Motivational Interviewing assessment was easy. 1500 words on the areas that i did well and then the areas that a different strategy would have been better - then outlining those strategies - was easy. It took me all day yesterday to do - but it wasn't that difficult.

I now have the most difficult part of my Motivational Interviewing essay left to do;

500 words - Having done this course, how do you evaluate the efficacy of motivational interviewing? Please include in your discussion comments on two of the following (or some other issues that you think are important): i.e. cultural implications, dual diagnosis cases, clients who present when in crisis, supporting research, ethical considerations, or some others. Please include and quote three references, which support your discussion (3 sources, at least two of which are different to your Course Readings).

I had thought that turning off my laptop and getting an early night last night might make that last part look easier in the morning.

I was wrong.

HELP.

There goes my weekend!




June 22, 2012

Irepair Ltd in Sandringham Road

Awhile back my daughter managed to do this to the iphone that she had just gotten for Christmas;

My daughter's actual phone

Shortly after dropping her off at a party i received a text message telling me that she had "totally smashed" her iphone - but not to worry - she had friends that could fix it for $80.00. 

Said friends kept the phone for about 2 months while "waiting for parts" which really annoyed me. Eventually said friends said they had fixed the phone - the $80.00 was forked out and the phone returned. 

One small problem. 

It looked like new again but - it didn't work. 

We gave phone back to friends who kept it, and the money for another month until i demanded the phone and the money be returned. 

I took the phone to the young man who runs Irepairs in Sandringham Road. I was concerned that after everything this poor phone had been through it would be beyond repair. I advised the young man (i can't remember his name) that runs this business that it may be beyond repair and i would appreciate it if he could just let me know how much it will cost if he can fix it - before he does the work. 

Within 5 minutes of leaving the phone with him he phoned me to let me know that not only was the screen busted but there were parts from the inside missing that would need replacing for it to work again. I was not surprised at this and had expected this to be the case. I assume those parts were lost when the friends were fiddling with it. 

I gave him the go ahead. 

Within 45 minutes the phone looked like this again;

Actual phone after repair

I arrived home to my eagerly waiting daughter and she was delighted - until she found that the "home" button was not working. 

I promptly phoned the young man at Irepairs and advised him that all was good except the home button did not appear to be working. I was a bit concerned that after the phone having been smashed to smithereens he would tell me there was nothing he could do about that. 

Instead he told me to bring the phone back and he replaced the home button for free. 

That was about 3 months ago and my daughter's phone has worked perfectly ever since. I am happy to report that she is more careful with it now. 

If you ever manage to totally destroy your iphone and think it is beyond salvation - i can totally recommend Irepairs in Sandringham Road to bring it back to life. 

Totally awesome service and a delightful young man to deal with. 


The Daktory's quarterly raid...

was carried out last night.

It seems the Daktory and it's employees/residents have had a technological recession. They have gone from marijuana vending machines that are advertised online - to display jars and word of mouth via neighbour's complaints.

Three arrested during raid at Auckland's 'Daktory'

Three people have been arrested during a police raid at "The Daktory" in West Auckland last night.
Waitakere police executed a search warrant at the property on Delta Avenue, New Lynn, about 6.30pm.
Police said 15 people were at the address at the time and a search of the property was carried out.
More than $3000 in cash and quantities of cannabis marked for sale in display jars were found.
A large assortment of drug paraphernalia and loose cannabis was also seized.
Police said two men and a woman were arrested and charged with various drug related offences, including possession of cannabis, possession of a Class C controlled drug for supply, possession of a Class B controlled drug for supply, permits premises to be used for the purposes of offending against the Misuse of Drugs Act 1975, and possession of drug related utensils.

The Daktory gets raided every three months.

These raids are as regular as the tides. They are as predictable as a full moon. They are expected like the phone bill that i receive every month.

How silly are these people...

More proof of what marijuana does to brain cells i guess! 

June 21, 2012

Full disclosure when begging for money...

should not be optional.

Matt and Madeleine Flannagan are pleading poor and begging for donations in order to travel to Milwaukee, Wisconsin, USA.

Wisconsin is a beautiful place - i lived there when i was in my early teens and one of my fondest memories of the place is of getting to watch the Milwaukee Brewers Baseball team play at Miller Park with my Dad.

I was a tom boy as a kid. Baseball - and my Dad - were my two biggest loves.

Anywayyyy I would love to go back there one day.

Unlike Matt and Madeleine Flannagan though - i intend to get a job and actually pay for it myself - rather than getting myself a PhD in something so obscure that i will never be able to find employment, then lying to the readers of my blog about how much money i have, then choosing to beg so that other people will pay for me to travel, then deleting any comments - like i have something to hide - that are made on my blog that question my bank balance and the thousands of dollars that i already have - instead of answering those comments.





Over 20 k in one account. 

No wonder they were so critical of me for declining the generous offers of donations towards my legal expenses in order to fight their abusive and vexatious legal proceedings - that eventually failed - that i received from readers of my blog. 

These people have no problem begging for money for luxuries such as overseas travel - when clearly - they do not need to be begging. 

Aren't Christians supposed to help others in need and give to the poor...rather than sit on their butts with 20 grand in their bank account while they beg and take off of others that are most likely less fortunate?

Mark 10:21
21Jesus looked at him and loved him. "One thing you lack," he said. "Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me."

Such dishonest hypocrites. 

Destiny Church part 2. 

No. Shame. 

Hebrews 13:5 5 - Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.”

"Prized Possession" crushed

Crushed car could be first of many...

The first boy or girl racer's car to be crushed under a law introduced by National four years ago will be squeezed into a block of metal tomorrow.
The car to be demolished is a Nissan Laurel used by a boy racer after his fourth offence, one more than the three needed to trigger the law.
Police Minister Anne Tolley will push the button and makes no apology for the destruction.
“These cars are prized possessions, they are an extension of some of these young men and we’re just going to crush them,” she says.
It has taken four years for the first car to reach the crusher, but it will take just one minute tomorrow to do the deed.

And here is a photo of said "Prized possession"...


Gee - i would hate to see a possession that this kid didn't care about! 

The government just did this kid a favour and saved him from having to spend money disposing of that heap. 

Crack. Up. 

Watch prized possession publicity crushing here...

What happened to Jane Furlong...

1998 Flashback: Teenage dreams cut short on K Road



Teen lost to the streets finally found

What an absolutely tragic life Jane had.

I really hope they solve this case. Mark Benefield - the officer now in charge of this investigation - is the same officer who was in charge of the Carmen Thomas investigation. For some reason that gives me a little bit of hope that after all these years Jane might receive some justice for what was done to her.

It seems to me that one of three scenarios played out.

I am praying that the Police find out what happened to Jane Furlong and whoever it was that ended her short life is punished.

June 20, 2012

New Zealand's Most Wanted

The Police have launched a website featuring wanted criminals.

One of these things is not like the others...

The whole website looks like a cross between a montage of NZDating profiles and The Montana Meth Project.


June 19, 2012

Weigh yourself on these scales

One day a man trying to lose weight stepped on the bathroom scales. His wife asked, 'How are you doing?' He replied, 'Ok, just one problem; according to these scales I ought to be 20 cm taller.'

When it comes to demonstrating true discipleship, James puts us all on the scales: (1) When it comes to feeding the hungry: 'Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing, and you say, "Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well" - but then you don't give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do? So you see, faith by itself isn't enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is...useless' (James 2:15-17 NLT). (2) When it comes to loving people and treating them with respect: 'Suppose someone comes into your meeting dressed in fancy clothes and expensive jewellery, and another comes in who is poor and dressed in dirty clothes. If you give special attention and a good seat to the rich person, but you say to the poor one, "You can stand over there, or else sit on the floor" - well, doesn't this discrimination show that your judgments are guided by evil motives' (James 2:2-4 NLT)? (3) When it comes to caring for the needy: 'Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress...' (James 1:27 NLT). Get your doctrine out of the deep freeze! Take your theology off the drawing board and start using it in a practical way.

Come on - weigh yourself on these scales.

Oh. My. Gosh.

My brain feels like jelly.

Theories essay - done.
Interventions essay - done.

Each of them took me two full 8 hour days to complete. I have been working non stop since Saturday.

My 2000 word critique of my Motivational Interview is not due until Monday. Considering i am averaging an essay every two days - i am going to take a day off.

I will head to the Salvation Army and do some work over the next couple of days instead.

T and i have been funny over the last two days. He has been working on the same assignment for interventions that i have been working on and we have been competing like it is no one's business. He has been at the kitchen table. I have been at the coffee table. The only noises we have made over the last two days have been to yell out to each other  "800 words!" ..."1300 words!"

He has been ahead of me the whole time but somehow i just beat him at clicking "send".

I write everything in chronological order and reference as i go. He has had to go back and do copying and pasting and referencing now.

I think it is time for me to watch a documentary and have a nap. Or. Something.



I don't get it

So now Whale Oil is being sued for defamation by Matt Blomfield.

I blogged about the Whale's apparent ability to get away with writing whatever he wants, whenever he wants, and as many times as he wants without any repercussions a couple of weeks ago.

I compared the situation to my own legal issues at the time whereby i had not even named the people involved and was being dragged through a silly court case.

I found the whole thing amusing.

There is one thing that i don't understand in regards to the whole Matt Blomfield vs Slater thing though.

What is up with The Whale's obsession with Matt!?

One look at that Whale Oil link and the dozens of posts full of information that absolutely no one would bother taking the time to read and not many people would care about has me thinking - SO WHAT?

Matt Blomfield was a pizza shop owner that may or may not have done some dodgy deals.

SO WHAT?

In saying that though - i will never eat another Hell's Pizza after seeing the franchise owners and how they bully the franchisees on Campbell Live last week.

Lucky for me La Padella at Highland Park does a much nicer pizza anyway.

I guess it will be interesting to see how this court case plays out. I don't envy Slater right now. Mental legal proceedings are enough to do anyone's head in. If the Whale is lucky - Matt will have Madeleine Flannagan or Simon Buckingham representing him.

June 18, 2012

Lame Legal Brain - Part 2

Lawyer fights to clear 'evil and dangerous predator'

A lawyer crusading on behalf of a man serving preventative detention for the brutal rape and murder of deaf woman Emma Agnew says she has closed her heart to the victim's family.
Davina Murray is fighting to clear the name of Liam James Reid, who is serving a 23-year sentence for the rape and murder of Ms Agnew in Christchurch in 2007 and the rape, attempted murder and robbery of a 21-year-old student in Dunedin nine days later.
Reid was described by the sentencing judge as an "evil and dangerous predator" but Ms Murray tonight described him as strong, determined and with "the spirit of a warrior" in an interview with 60 Minutes.
"I know that they've got the wrong man in jail, so the murderer is still out there."
Asked about what Ms Agnew's family might feel about her fight to clear Reid's name, Ms Murray said it was "very hard" to do her job and think about the victims of crime.
"You have to close your heart down to what they're going through and what they have been through, so I haven't given it a lot of thought."
Ms Murray visited Reid in prison 80 times over nine months last year - about three times a week.
She is currently facing two charges after she allegedly smuggled him an iPhone, cigarettes and a lighter at Mt Eden Prison in October.
Ms Murray described her relationship with Reid as very strong.
"You have a relationship of trust and you become their only voice. Nobody else is listening to him."
Ms Murray told 60 Minutes Reid did not commit the crimes and she had fresh evidence to prove it.
"I've read the file and I think I'm probably the first lawyer in the country, which is sad, to make that assumption.
"But in my view, if his trial counsel had in fact printed off all of the disclosure which was located on 24 disks that police had provided, it would have been evidentially clear that it was actually impossible for Liam Reid to have committed the murder."
Ms Murray said prosecutors had incorrectly claimed Ms Agnew's phone had not switched over to daylight savings time, and the chronology did not fit.
"Taking Emma, raping her, murdering her, digging a hole, putting a body in it - they have to push the time back to make it possible."
Ms Murray also disputed DNA evidence of a hair found in Ms Agnew's car, which she said was mixed up with evidence from Reid's backpack.
"He was never in that vehicle."
Ms Murray said the attack on the Dunedin student was a case of misidentification and she was not worried the victim's blood was found on the upper part of Reid's shoe.
It was plausible that he had walked through her blood, she said.
Ms Murray said Reid was "caught in the trap" of being in a gang and had been made to take the heat for the crimes.
She wants to take the case to the Supreme Court, which has denied an appeal, but said police had destroyed all exhibits - which she said was "incredibly suspicious".
Detective Inspector Tom Fitzgerald of Christchurch police told 60 Minutes that the Crown proved its case beyond all reasonable doubt, and Reid was convicted by a jury.
The matters raised by Ms Murray were canvassed in court and police had no wish to relitigate the case, he said.
Ms Agnew's mother Louise Agnew said she believed Ms Murray had been "fooled by Liam in such a way that she has become gullible".
"Liam's ex-girlfriend testified that he had killed Emma and there is no denying this and the strong DNA evidence against him," she said in a statement to 60 Minutes.
"If Davina Murray continues to support him through an appeal and he is released, then we believe that the community will not be safe and he will reoffend, and this will be on her shoulders."


I watched 60 Minutes last night and i could not believe what i was listening to. If you missed it - the segment can be found at 60 Minutes - Hear no Evil.

Davina Murray is clearly delusional. It was almost like watching a case of Stockholm Syndrome being played out before my eyes.

The craziest thing about this whole saga is that Davina Murray would not even be embarrassed by appearing on prime time, national television to defend Liam Reid and make ridiculous excuses in relation to the evidence in support of his guilt.

I notice that she never did answer whether or not she smuggled the Iphone and cigarettes in to the prison. Her only reference to that was to comment on the repercussions if she is found guilty.

Delusional people are shocking me less and less these days - but that doesn't make them any easier to understand. Davina Murray is in her own world. She cannot see reality.

Having an education, a career, or being a lawyer is clearly not proof of sanity. 

June 17, 2012

Wait and you'll experience God's best

If you've been praying for God to send you the right partner or for a better job, or to change the heart of a rebellious child, remember, whether He changes the situation or changes you, He 'will fulfil His purpose for [you].' God sees the big picture, and He loves you so much that He works out 'all things for good in your life' (Romans 8:28).

One author writes: 'It's hard to make sense of life's challenges when you're in the middle...you're too tired, your perspective's limited...you don't have the strength or vision to do this on your own... "Trust the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own understanding" (Proverbs 3:5 GWT) means letting go of floundering attempts to manipulate people, circumstances or timing...and returning the reins to the One who knows the way. Think about it; if you knew what you were doing, would you be in this mess?

We talk about waiting on God. But He also waits on us...until we're ready to receive...until we appreciate what we're asking for...until we've made sufficient preparations in our heart...until we're free from resentment and discontent...until our maturity level is appropriate and our understanding elevated...Sometimes He waits until we think He's forgotten us just to test and grow our faith...Remember, "...With the Lord a day is like a thousand years..." (2 Peter 3:8 NIV). Eternity is His backdrop...and He can solve a problem in a minute, or in two generations.' Isaiah says, 'The Lord longs to be gracious to you...Blessed are all who wait for Him' (Isaiah 30:18 NIV)! Wait! Don't get ahead of God and you'll experience His best.


I have had an awesome weekend. I have worked all weekend but it has been absolutely superb.

The kids have been busy - out and about around Howick and the surrounding areas doing their own thing. T and i have had the house to ourselves to work on our studies. We have both sat here in front of our laptops working on essays all day today.

I have just submitted my Theories essay - after 8 hours of working on it today. I have a roast cooking in the oven. I have T and all the family back home now just in time for me to have clicked SEND on the essay.

I feel like a house has been lifted off my shoulders after the stress of the last 7 weeks finally being over.

Life is so wonderful right now that it is hard to describe.

One essay down. 8 days to do two more.

No problem!



Internet Intrigue

Blogger's affair revealed in court







I find it rather amusing that after threatening me, assuring me that "we WILL win" and then wishing God's "sword of vengeance to be meted out on me" through our justice system -that Madeleine Flannagan can now claim to be happy with losing this case.

This was a LOG; Legal Own Goal.

The only reason that the judge accepted their version of events is because i did not get a lawyer and fight them. Had i spent money on this and actually ensured that the truth was told in court - that would not have been the case. As it stands though, because i did not do that, the judge had no choice but to accept Madeleine Flannagan and Debbie Brown's version of events.

They should be grateful that i didn't get a lawyer and actually fight their dishonesty. They would now be responsible for my legal bill if i had.

The only thing that Madeleine Flannagan and i seem to be able to agree on is whether or not this is a precedent setting case. I agree with her that it is - but for different reasons. I don't agree with her that people will be lining up to take part in legal proceedings that they will lose.

The judge's decision in this case shows that just because you are a lawyer - or in the case of Debbie Brown,  have a friend who will act as your lawyer for free - that does not give you a right to spend 18 months stalking a person's blog, facebook page, emailing them,  hunting down and befriending people from that person's past in order to hurt them, making threatening phone calls, taunting that person in an effort to get them to name you, and making constant threats of legal action then when none of that succeeds in making the object of your obsession unhappy - you cannot use the legal system to further bully that person.

It shows that the law clearly states that if you obsess over someone and refuse to just leave that person alone then your own actions are what will cause you distress. As the judge said - if you are in a shopping mall, you see someone that you don't like and choose to approach them - you cannot then claim that they have followed you.

In the end - i am happy that this court case occurred. This case has set a precedent. I and other bloggers will be able to use the ruling - in our defence- in any future abusive and vexatious legal proceedings.

Never once did i go on to those women's blogs, look at their Facebook pages, or contact them. You are not harassing someone when that person comes to you - and having a lawyer won't change that.

Had Debbie Brown and Madeleine Flannagan not attempted to bully me with vexatious legal proceedings - no one would be the wiser regarding their identities in relation to the few times i had mentioned my interactions with them on my blog.

I rest easy knowing that He who weighs the hearts and actions of men knows the truth, and I am grateful that God gave the State the power of the sword to mete out his vengeance so that we who are wronged can seek justice in this life and know that it is God's justice being measured out on earth. ~ Madeleine Flannagan in one of her many emails to me. 

God knew the truth and that is why your silly law suit was dismissed.

The end. 

June 16, 2012

Justice for me!

I have just received a thick envelope from the Ministry of Justice with the decision by Judge David Harvey in relation to the Harassment proceedings that were brought against me by Madeleine Flannagan and Debbie Brown.

I am grateful to Judge Harvey for the obvious amount of time and attention that he put in to this.

CASE DISMISSED!

And i didn't even have a lawyer.

Thank you God for answering my prayers and allowing the truth to prevail.

Simon Buckingham and Madeleine Flannagan should hand in their LLBs and go back to Law school. This kind of abusive and vexatious litigation is not what our courts are for.

Not only has this case been dismissed but Judge Harvey also heavily criticised another Judge's decision in a previous harassment case brought against me.

I would write more about the decision but i have been through hell and back with this case, and now i just want to focus on my education.

I am forgetting about this - and forgiving both of them.





June 15, 2012

Life is really cruel sometimes

Brave toddler loses battle with leukaemia




I don't get it.

No words - just prayers for Chace's journey up to heaven, and his family that have been left behind. 

June 14, 2012

A little motivation

Just when i am sitting here with a very frustrating and stressful bout of writer's block - and thinking that three essays to churn out in the next ten days is going to be impossible - i get a little reminder from God of what i am capable of in my mailbox.









This is the kind of mail that i like to receive!

Receiving confirmation of my first A is just what i needed to keep me positive and motivated this afternoon.

Thank you God.


Karaoke Discord

An interesting read - that only scratches the surface - regarding what goes on in downtown Auckland while most of us are tucked up warm in bed.

I have never been in to a Karaoke bar myself - and never plan on going to one. It was always my impression though, that the last reason anyone goes to a place like that - is to show off their vocal talent.

Karaoke discord: The secrets behind closed doors

When karaoke first arrived in New Zealand, it was innocent good fun. Now, downtown karaoke bars play host to intoxication, drug-dealing, money-laundering and prostitution.
A group of middle-aged Asian men is crowded around a small table in a dimly-lit, underground bar, playing a dice game and drinking hard liquor. Word comes down from radio-linked security guards on the street . . . the police are approaching.
The game, the drunk young women and any other evidence of misdemeanour are quickly tidied away. By the time police open the door of the private booth, there is nothing but a few men in suits sitting quietly around the outside of the room, poker-faced.
It just doesn't feel right, says Auckland police shift commander Ben Offner. "They'll be all males and you'll know from where they are sitting what they are doing and who's in charge."
Because this isn't something from an opium den of the 19th century. It's an Auckland karaoke bar - where privacy, alcohol and more than a touch of criminality combine to shape one of the city's new dens of iniquity. Police aren't concerned about the terrible singing of businessmen - they are worried about drug-dealing, money-laundering, gross intoxication and prostitution.
Back in 2000, Tam Yam Ah, a bouncer at Heaven Paradise karaoke restaurant in Albert St, attacked patrons with a meat cleaver. "He was seen by the concierge of the City Life apartments running down Durham Lane holding a chopper above his head, chasing this guy sort of Hong Kong-style like some sort of bad movie," said defence lawyer Graeme Newell afterwards. "He'd used it on a couple of guys inside . . . they were singing Taiwanese when he wanted people to be singing Mandarin."
Tam Yam Ah was sentenced to six years in prison.
That was followed three years later by an Asian gang stabbing at Elmo Karaoke Bar in Karangahape Rd.
Things really fired up in 2005, though, when Tam himself was shot dead, execution style. The erstwhile Triad enforcer died in the carpark of the Symonds St Top Karaoke bar he part-owned. It was revealed during the course of the trial that Tam had paid $20,000 in cash for the deposit on his share of the karaoke bar - $300,000 in total.
One police source says there have been a number of seizures of drugs and cash at karaoke bars since then - including more than $1 million in cash from Feng Chih Hsu, during a methamphetamine bust dubbed Operation Arcadia. Hsu, the meth ring's kingpin, used karaoke bars to hold meetings of his drug syndicate, the High Court heard last month. Convicted of supplying methamphetamine and firearms charges, he was sentenced to 17 years and three months imprisonment.
Another police officer says most karaoke bars have a "resident prostitute and drug dealer" on hand to meet patrons' needs.
Police are worried. Partygoers are alienated. What goes on in New Zealand's downtown karaoke bars is music only to the ears of organised crime.
If you haven't been out late in Auckland in the past few years, the word karaoke might remind you of the friendly neighbourhood bars of 20 years ago. A karaoke DJ wearing a cowboy hat and warming up the after-work crowd with The Gambler by Kenny Rogers. Then the hairdressers and bank tellers, a couple of wines under the belt, get up to wail their way through Dancing Queen, Nights in White Satin and I am Woman.
Those scenes are still played out on Homai Te Paki Paki on Maori Television. Someone's auntie, possibly a couple of RTDs into a six-pack, belting out an old Aretha Franklin number, or a gruff mechanic type surprising his wide-eyed kids with a velvety baritone.
But while the karaoke machine set up in a pub is still popular in some suburban bars, much of the country's karaoke singing is now being done in private booths in basement bars that are open all hours, with an approach to liquor licensing that could at best be described as lax.
These joints have been thrust into the spotlight lately with reports that intoxicated patrons are leaving mainstream pubs at closing time, or when they are kicked out for being too intoxicated, and heading to the karaoke clubs where they can continue to drink.
Partyworld in Newton lost its licence for 42 days because police found it hiding two extremely drunk women when they came to check the premises during the Rugby World Cup. They saw one, almost comatose, being carried into a back room as they walked in. It was the third time the licensee had fallen foul of liquor licensing laws, and the second time an attempt had been made to remove a drunk patron from the bar when police showed up.
Two more karaoke bars are facing legal action for serving drunk patrons.
Ben Offner doesn't have to think long when he's asked what concerns him most about karaoke bars. Just last week, he was patrolling Newmarket and passed a group of young women coming out of a karaoke bar. "They were legless," he says. "I thought, 'if I can prove where they've come from I can prosecute the bar'. But they might have got that way anywhere."
Perhaps unsurprisingly, most of the city's karaoke bar managers are reluctant to talk publicly. Some of them are fighting to hold on to their liquor licences, and don't need any bad publicity. But down at Prince Karaoke on Quay St, the new owners say karaoke clubs are being unfairly singled out.
Manager Rose Cong says bouts of police attention are few and far between. The club changed hands a few months ago and she says there has been no interest from the police yet. "If we have trouble, the police will come, but if we behave, it's okay."
She says karaoke - and house spirits - are hugely popular with the club's Asian clientele. At the weekends they could have up to 50 patrons through in a night. If she sees people getting too drunk, she stops serving them.
But it's the seeing them that's the problem, says Offner. Part of the problem with karaoke bars is the way the private rooms are set out. Instead of one big open space, where the bartender can keep an eye on who is doing what, people book private rooms and stock up on alcohol to drink in them.
Offner says: "In a normal pub, it's quite open. Staff can see people walking around and decide when they have had enough. In karaoke bars, the licensee can't see what's going on."

At 1.40am on Friday, Sky restaurant on Kitchener St is empty save for the Korean manager and three waiting staff. The shadows reveal a statue, some pot plants, and dirty dishes left on one of the tables.
At the back of the darkened restaurant, Zoe Cho is minding the bar and the shelves full of spirits. Opposite her, white lights flash under the doors of three karaoke booths, and Korean music drifts out into the restaurant. There are no windows in the doors.
A tall, slim Asian woman in an elegant knee-length dress and high heels emerges from the ladies room, checks her make-up in the mirror, then disappears into one of the booths.
Groups of five or six people tend to book booths and stay for a couple of hours, says Cho. "There's no video surveillance, we just leave them in there."
The bar has been popular with Korean students, who have grown up in a culture that combines singing, food, and drinking to excess. They don't necessarily understand that bars are not allowed to serve drunks, and can react badly to being refused service.
Cho, an attractive 20-something with a plunging V-neck that shows off her cleavage, speaks with a New Zealand accent. Korean bars, she insists, provide pleasant environments. People who are too drunk will be removed - if one of their friends or colleagues emerges from the booth to report a problem.
"There generally aren't any fights inside the booths and if anything goes down, we drag them out."
Hilary Chung, head of Asian Studies at the University of Auckland, says private rooms and excess drinking are a cultural preference. On her travels to China, she is regularly taken to private rooms at restaurants by colleagues and contacts - as well as being practical, it's a sign of prestige. "Privacy is something you pay to have in a country where overcrowding is a problem."
And yes, she says, Asian cultures do have a different way of drinking. Drinking games, which are illegal in New Zealand pubs and bars, are popular. People tend to drink strong spirits, often slamming them down in one go. "Asian liquor, made from rice - like sake - are very strong. Asian people don't have the physiology to handle drinking a lot."
Drinking to get drunk. It's an alcohol culture that is not far removed from New Zealand's one. And that makes the karaoke bars popular with young Kiwis who want a big night out with their friends. Aucklander Sebastian van der Zwan says the free and easy approach to alcohol, and the ability to find a private nook in which to indulge one's music and liquor preferences, are part of the appeal.
The 29-year-old is an ardent karaoke fan - although he admits that in general he is too intoxicated to remember the names of the places he has visited - and says the ability to drink as much as you like, and sneak alcohol in without being noticed, is part of the appeal.
He started going to karaoke clubs when he was 21 and had just finished university. But it's still a regular part of nights out. "You can get really wasted."
He says he gets caught sneaking alcohol in about a third of the time and he can remember only one time he was asked to leave. "Shrieking like banshees, jumping all over the booths and swinging the microphones by the cords. We may also have snuck booze in."
Auckland Council's liquor licensing team say it is difficult to determine exactly how many karaoke bars are in the city, as many claim to be restaurants. Licensing manager James Jefferson says there is no excuse for duty managers failing to monitor intoxication levels.

"As a minimum, we would expect regular physical checks to be made throughout an evening and intoxication levels to be assessed before further sales took place."
It's not just the intoxication that worries police.
That cup of dice you often see on a table in the middle of a karaoke bar's reception area? That's a drinking game that the bars are at pains to hide from police. Drinking, gambling - and drugs.
Detective Inspector Bruce Good has serious concerns about drug dealing being done behind closed doors in karaoke rooms that have all the accessibility of a public bar, yet all the privacy of a private home. "Historically there have been underground gambling dens run by Asians and they are still there," he says.
The gangs are believed to be responsible for much of the drugs imported into this country, and Good has no doubt that drugs are being dealt and trafficked through karaoke bars - and patrons should be aware of what is going on in the neighbouring rooms.
A police source who does not want to be identified says: "Karaoke bars have tended to attract a certain type of person who is involved in drug activities. They have tended to be a honeypot for organised crime elements. Private rooms lend themselves to that and a lot of money goes through. Crime figures like to show off their wealth as well as being able to talk privately."
Bars' management have worked with police to cut down on the use of their premises for criminal deals, "although that's less because they want to and more because they know they have to".
Labour MP Raymond Huo blames much of the trouble on young, newly-independent, cashed-up foreign students, posturing and imitating what they have seen in the movies.
They are bored, he says, they have no family supervision, and they have a lot of money.
"It's mainly youngsters influenced by action movies. We can't become a dumping ground."
Asian gangster movies get the blame too from Stephen Epstein, head of Asian Studies at Victoria University. He says it's common for Hong Kong and Korean films to portray gangsters in "room salon" type karaoke bars, where men pay to sing with showgirls and sometimes arrange to have sex with them afterwards.
In some countries, especially in southeast Asia, karaoke rooms are the last stop before the bordello.
Men used to those types of clubs might pay for prostitutes to accompany them into private karaoke rooms in New Zealand as a precursor to sex, Epstein says. There's nothing illegal about that - though it may not be an attractive thought for innocent karaoke singers in the booth next door. "If they're getting up to more than singing that's only a licensing issue," Epstein says.
Many bars operate a "hostess" system, says the police source, where women are used to entice men into bars and to encourage them to buy drinks. "We believe that does occur but it's kept very quiet."
In China, he says, that would come with the expectation of sex at the end of the night - but it's not clear whether that is happening in New Zealand.
Van der Zwan says he's never noticed anything too untoward when he's been in karaoke bars, although the police concerns don't surprise him as all the attention is on what's going on in the room.
Karaoke bars will always provide a cover for crime and intoxication in New Zealand, he says, "as long as there are drunk people who think they're rock stars."

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