In early November 2011 Debbie sent me a friend request on Facebook. I could not quite believe my eyes when i saw it - after all of the nasty things that she had been saying about me for the past 10 months. I declined the friend request without saying anything to her and forgot about it.
Later on in November - i again received another friend request from her. This time instead of just ignoring her contact request - i went one step further and blocked her. Out of sight out of mind. I was hoping that logic would work on her.
This was then followed up by an email from her then partner.
The following is the email that i received from him.
I find it rather dishonest that Debbie is aware of his email to me asking me to accept her request to resume our friendship, however she has left this out of her statement - instead choosing to pretend that i sent an unsolicited email to him in an attempt to break them up. I had known for several weeks that this man was in a volatile relationship with Debbie - and had chosen to remain silent on the matter. As you can see from his email - he was unaware that i even knew they were together.
This man is someone that i met via that awful website 10 (not 6) years ago. Because he was in a long term relationship our "friendship" has always been completely platonic. Despite my past - i have never and will never be interested in married men - and i do not understand women that are.
Who wants to be second best...no thanks.
I find it disturbing that Debbie is stating that she felt the need to attempt to resume our friendship for this man's benefit. I would not actually even call it a friendship. He is an acquaintance. I have met him in person once - and other than that our friendship has consisted of nothing more than email exchanges over the years. We had absolutely no contact between 2004 until 2011 when we accidentally came across each other last year when i had created a profile on NZdating so that i could peruse the message boards regarding something that was being said about me on there.
We have had more contact during the past 5 months while i have attempted to offer him support in relation to the drama that he was dealing with in regards to his relationship with Debbie once it finished - ie; accusations of rape and court action - than we have had in the whole ten years that i have known him.
This man frequently deleted me on Facebook and then would re add me - while he was in a relationship with Debbie. I did not care about that. I have enough friends and he and i are not close. It was my perception that Debbie was insecure about my friendship with this man and insisted he delete me. I could always tell when they were broken up again - because he would re add me.
She has sworn in this affidavit that i am someone that she would have to have contact with while in a relationship with this man - because him and i were so close - there for she tried to make amends for his benefit. She has omitted her knowledge that she is aware of the fact that anything i said to him during this email exchange was in response to his initial email to me. She has lied in implying that i sent an unsolicited email to him - attempting to break them up.
That is perjury - isn't it...
I can only assume that Debbie is using him and implying that he had some kind of control over her behaviour in relation to her contacting me again last November. The precious victim is never responsible for her own actions.
Still - she did not hear from me - until after i received an email from her threatening me with a law suit for advising this man that i did not think it was great that he was cheating on his partner, that i actually thought he was stupid, warned him that Debbie would attempt to destroy him, and told him that i would still be his friend when it all turns to custard.
I received a response to that from Debbie - threatening me with a law suit!
So - according to Debbie Brown not only am i not allowed to talk about anything that happens in my life or anyone that i know - even if i don't name them - now i am also not allowed to give my honest opinion in a private email exchange with a friend.
I politely told her to bugger of f and that if i heard from her again i would get a harassment order on her.
This email from Debbie Brown proves her desire to take me to court - for anything - from the day that Madeleine Flannagan gained her legal qualification. She has hounded me, obsessed over me, and even attempted to name herself in comments - which i did not publish - in order to have something to take me to court over.
Why can this woman not just move on...
I advised her then partner of the legal threat the next day. By this time they had broken up again - or something. I don't know. I can only guess that was the case because he always went quiet when they were back together.
Despite numerous denials that she has ever commented on my blog over the past 18 months - she admitted to her then partner that she does actually comment - so there you go - another lie from Debbie Brown.
Unfortunately she lied to this man regarding the nature of the comments.
It was on this day that this man asked me out for coffee.
I declined this invitation. While it would have been nice to catch up with him over my favourite beverage - my response went something like;
I did not have coffee with this acquaintance because i was scared of what Debbie Brown's reaction to that would be if she found out i had met with him. I did not want to antagonise her - or as T calls it - poke sticks at freaks.
If i had ever had any inclination to harass Debbie Brown - the best way to do that would have been to meet the object of her obsession for coffee in order to wind her up. I did not do that though - because i was and always have been afraid of what Debbie Brown is capable of.
NZdating - DON'T. Go. THERE!