Ugh - I cringe whenever i hear the words NZ Dating. That website is awful. It is nothing more than a big incestuous pit of mental health disorders having unprotected sex.
Years and years ago i created a profile on that website. I had the worst experiences ever.
I briefly dated a man who confessed to being bi polar. I had no idea at the time what bi polar meant but having really, really good moods didn't seem like all that bad of a disorder to me.
Arrrrggghhhh!!!!
The moods were like clockwork. Monday and Tuesday everything would be fine - things seemed like a happy normal relationship. Wednesday - things started to go downhill. Thursday - a big huge fight would erupt over nothing. Friday - we would break up. Saturday and Sunday - he would spend sucking up, saying sorry and wanting to get back together. Monday and Tuesday - everything would be fine. Wed - you get the picture?
For 6 weeks i put up with this cycle.
When i finally ended it for good and made it clear that there was no going back, this man insisted on turning up at my place to collect all of his things that were so important that he had to get them RIGHT NOW.
A pillow.
Then he proceeded to write off his car by smashing it head on into a tree in my street. I still to this day wonder if he ever worked out that the magnet that he wore around his neck "to centre his moods" might not really work - because our moods are not made of metal.
Hello?!?!?
Honestly - one would think that a person would give up on dating after that huh? Oh noooo not me!
I then moved on to a body builder who insisted that despite the fact that his nipples were growing and his man bits were shrinking he was not on steroids or drugs. This man told me that the fact that his man bits would not work was all my fault and i believed him - felt bad about myself even - until the morning that i walked into the bathroom and caught him injecting drugs into his well toned bottom.
Arrrgggghhhhh! Was that enough for me to give up? Oh heck no.
There was the dude that stole my cheque book - this was nearly ten years ago remember - when people still used them to pay bills etc. Mine had sat near my phone for a year and never moved. I used it to pay my power and phone bills. Leaving an NZ Dater alone with it for ten minutes was enough to make it disappear - forever.
I have so many horror stories that i could tell about the freaks that are on NZdating. I think the funniest thing though is that i went and looked at that website this week - for the first time in nearly a decade - because someone had sent me a link to something that was said about me on there - and it has not changed. It is still the same freaks bleating on about the same old mental crap. I felt extra special when i saw the ex partner of a friend of mine - a P addict and Ritalin abuser who used to get his monthly Ritalin prescription for his mental health issues and take the whole lot in 2 days - was STILL rabbiting on about ME on that website's message boards despite me having not been there or even looked at that website for nearly a decade.
A girl that i used to work with in a real job - who i later found out was moonlighting as a hooker - is still on there looking for love. One quick browse of the New Zealand Girls website soon proved that "danger_gurl" is still a hooker. Her name has changed to Amber and her age has decreased by ten years but she is still the same old hooker and working in St. Johns. The last line of her profile requests that men do not email her for sex - hmmm i am thinking she gets enough of that!
So it is not just the men who are freaks or the women that are at risk on that website either.
The fact that Natalia Burgess was on that website and met some of her victims on there - does not surprise me in the slightest. Online dating is a sea of lonely desperation and opportunistic married men who are too cheap to just pay a hooker at the best of times but there is a special place in the internet mental health unit for NZ Dating and it's members.
If you are considering looking for your future partner online and venture onto NZDating - don't say you were not warned! Natalia Burgess and her behaviour is extreme but typical of what you can expect from the kind of people that hang out on NZDating.
Don't. Go. There.
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Years and years ago i created a profile on that website. I had the worst experiences ever.
I briefly dated a man who confessed to being bi polar. I had no idea at the time what bi polar meant but having really, really good moods didn't seem like all that bad of a disorder to me.
Arrrrggghhhh!!!!
The moods were like clockwork. Monday and Tuesday everything would be fine - things seemed like a happy normal relationship. Wednesday - things started to go downhill. Thursday - a big huge fight would erupt over nothing. Friday - we would break up. Saturday and Sunday - he would spend sucking up, saying sorry and wanting to get back together. Monday and Tuesday - everything would be fine. Wed - you get the picture?
For 6 weeks i put up with this cycle.
When i finally ended it for good and made it clear that there was no going back, this man insisted on turning up at my place to collect all of his things that were so important that he had to get them RIGHT NOW.
A pillow.
Then he proceeded to write off his car by smashing it head on into a tree in my street. I still to this day wonder if he ever worked out that the magnet that he wore around his neck "to centre his moods" might not really work - because our moods are not made of metal.
Hello?!?!?
Honestly - one would think that a person would give up on dating after that huh? Oh noooo not me!
I then moved on to a body builder who insisted that despite the fact that his nipples were growing and his man bits were shrinking he was not on steroids or drugs. This man told me that the fact that his man bits would not work was all my fault and i believed him - felt bad about myself even - until the morning that i walked into the bathroom and caught him injecting drugs into his well toned bottom.
Arrrgggghhhhh! Was that enough for me to give up? Oh heck no.
There was the dude that stole my cheque book - this was nearly ten years ago remember - when people still used them to pay bills etc. Mine had sat near my phone for a year and never moved. I used it to pay my power and phone bills. Leaving an NZ Dater alone with it for ten minutes was enough to make it disappear - forever.
I have so many horror stories that i could tell about the freaks that are on NZdating. I think the funniest thing though is that i went and looked at that website this week - for the first time in nearly a decade - because someone had sent me a link to something that was said about me on there - and it has not changed. It is still the same freaks bleating on about the same old mental crap. I felt extra special when i saw the ex partner of a friend of mine - a P addict and Ritalin abuser who used to get his monthly Ritalin prescription for his mental health issues and take the whole lot in 2 days - was STILL rabbiting on about ME on that website's message boards despite me having not been there or even looked at that website for nearly a decade.
A girl that i used to work with in a real job - who i later found out was moonlighting as a hooker - is still on there looking for love. One quick browse of the New Zealand Girls website soon proved that "danger_gurl" is still a hooker. Her name has changed to Amber and her age has decreased by ten years but she is still the same old hooker and working in St. Johns. The last line of her profile requests that men do not email her for sex - hmmm i am thinking she gets enough of that!
So it is not just the men who are freaks or the women that are at risk on that website either.
The fact that Natalia Burgess was on that website and met some of her victims on there - does not surprise me in the slightest. Online dating is a sea of lonely desperation and opportunistic married men who are too cheap to just pay a hooker at the best of times but there is a special place in the internet mental health unit for NZ Dating and it's members.
If you are considering looking for your future partner online and venture onto NZDating - don't say you were not warned! Natalia Burgess and her behaviour is extreme but typical of what you can expect from the kind of people that hang out on NZDating.
Don't. Go. There.
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| An example of just one of the lovely and romantic messages i received on NZDating this week... |
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hi there - been reading your blog for over a year or so. never been tempted to comment until now.just read this one and had to laugh so much.i too was on nz dating last year and had the pleasure of going out with danger_gurl a few times(she did say she knew you-this was when you made the headlines with micheal). she seemed nice but some things just never added up...i guess now i know...thanks for the laughs...reading your page is one of the highlights of the day...
cheers mark
Hey Mark - that is a crack up. I met her while working in an office. She was always strange but i never realised just how strange until i found out she was a hooker.
It was her that gave me the idea to get involved in that hideous world - in the first place.
She is bonkers. I have a protection order on her...It is not only the men that are crazy and unhealthy on that website.
You dodged a rather large bullet there buddy. :)
oh and PS - I am glad someone out there enjoys my constant dribble! ;)
Let me guess... Mister ritalin abuser was a short man called Bruce? :P
Lol Jess- how did you guess?!?!
I am not sure if i should have been concerned or flattered that he is still so concerned with my life - like 8 years after we last had any contact.
A bit strange - to say the least!
As another ex of Mr Ritalin Abuser I can tell you he's really not right in the head, but then you didn't need me to tell you that did ya?
P.S Ritalin isn't the only thing he abuses!1
lol! I totally agree about NZD. It really is incestuous, esp. in a smaller community like the LGBT one. I used to use it to find hook ups on *those* nights, lol, but got sick of every gay man I met knowing every other gay man I met. A while ago I dated a guy from the NZAF that I met on NZD - he was a normal bloke aside from being a bit of an asshole - and was pleased that he didn't seem to know anyone I knew... until I discovered that he DID know someone, another guy I had met over NZD who lived his life under various false personas including one that he was an NZ Army captain (he actually worked at StudyLink as a data entrant). He had used that same lie on my ex, who believed him despite actually being in the defense forces. Trying to find anyone off the radar - for a friendship, a relationship or even just sex - is impossible anyway given the gay club culture (which I keep out of anyway) but NZD makes it worse. The community in engenders is just a humongous mass of overlapping circles; I'm glad I'm off it. I'd honestly rather have three-month periods between hookups that happen organically, lol. Unfortunately it is still hard to escape the "everyone knows everybody" thing in this country, no matter who you are!
LOL That is a funny comment.
I wouldn't go near that site, or anyone on it with someone else's...
They have all slept with each other...it is like they all have turns and pass each other around.
It is full of people with mental health disorders, various substance addictions, and predators just looking for people to use.
I have a very close friend who is a police officer - he tells me the place is also full of criminals. The NZ Police are constantly monitoring NZD in order to catch people that they are looking for.
It is not a place that healthy, happy, normal people would hang out.
I would rather go for hte rest of my life without sex - than touch anyone from that site.
You are dead right - NZ Dating is a dreadful website. I can only comment from the perspective of a man - the two women I met before I deleted my profile and ran screaming into the night were both certifiable. The first met me for lunch and seemed ok. The next meeting (again lunch) she turned up with her boyfriend. And they both fell about laughing until I walked out. The next, like Natalia's experience, seemed initailly ok, until she too admited she had bipolar issues (but they were under control). Until she attacked me with a knife and cut me down the side of the face. After smashing half the crockery.
Avoid NZ Dating like the plague. You could end up getting it (or worse). Or end up dead like I nearly did.
Holy Cow.
Glad you had the good sense to delete the profile and run screaming in to the night!
Jeepers. I had some bad experiences with crazies but never anything that scary!
The problem with meeting people online is that people end up meeting other people that they never would have met otherwise. There are no common interests, friends etc etc. Other than long walks on the beach and romantic nights in by the fire - which everyone seems to love! ha
People can be whoever they want to be from behind a computer screen and i guess the thing to remember if you are inclined to attempt to find love online is that things or people that seem too good to be true - usually are.
...and stay away from the polar bears! ;)
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