I mentioned yesterday, that i did not want to talk about the sex industry much because i don't want to be constantly criticising it. I don't want to be constantly turning my nose up at it. I mentioned that it works for some...just not for me.
Well...stuff that for a joke...haha I have never been one to not speak my mind.
I was feeling lonely, and a bit bored last night. I went surfing the Internet to find amusing things to take my mind off of that boredom and loneliness. Somehow, i came across some blogs that were written by people who are currently sex workers. That can happen when you google "escort blogs nz" haha...I am not singling anyone out, and most of the blogs that i read were blogs of people that i do not know...have never met.
I could not help but notice how every single one of those blogs glamorised the lifestyle, and attempted to make it sound so romantic and fun. These blogs attempt to come across to the reader, as though the writer is this wonderfully, well balanced, educated , and intelligent, worldly woman. She just happens to love having sex with lots of fantastic, and respectful men. Men that would give anything to whisk her away from that life. She instead, chooses to be a hooker because she loves having sex with different men non stop for $200.00 bucks an hour.
PS you can orgasm as many times as you like in your paid time.
I'm sorry. I don't buy it.
I have met a lot of women in that industry, and not one of them wanted to be there. Not one of them was not looking for an alternative to the life that she was leading. Not one of them had aspired to be a hooker when they were growing up. Not one of them looked forward to their next booking. Not one of them had saved any of the money that they had earned with their bodies. Not one of them, was not damaged by something or things, that had happened in their life. Not one of them was happy. Not one of them had romance or glamour in their life...not one of them, including me.
I can't help but express my opinion regarding these blogs, and this form of advertising. I don't think it is setting a good example for young girls. I don't like the fact that my daughters can log in to the Internet and read how glamorous sex work is from people that are currently in that business...I don't like the fact that any young girl out there can do this. I don't like it, because it is not glamorous. These blogs are nothing more than selfish self promotion ,with no concern for setting an example for anyone that might read them.
They are written purely with the aim of creating more business. They are written in the hope that some guy out there will read it and go " I'm going to book her because she is gagging for it...she loves it...not like that chick at the brothel up the road who kept looking at the clock"...
The hooker that loves her job is about as real as the size 6, 6 foot tall woman that all jeans are made to fit...effectively causing me to have to get my jeans hemmed everytime i buy a pair. Where is that 6 foot tall, size 6 woman that those jeans are made for? Probably on the same planet, where the hooker that loves her romantic and glamorous life lives.
I would give examples of what i am talking about but, i do not want to single anyone out, anymore than i want to give these blogs the publicity that they do not deserve. I will keep hunting for an honest "memoir" of being a sex worker. Don't hold your breath.
Apologies for any bubbles i have burst this morning. I just believe that people...especially young girls who could be lured into this lifestyle after reading these fake blogs...have the right to know the truth. If a woman wants to embark on a career as a sex worker then that is fine...but it is not glamorous, or romantic, or even sexy. Everyone needs their eyes opened. At least be honest and let young women out there know what they are getting themselves into.
It is not fun, and any woman in that industry that says otherwise, is lying.
That was my morning rant. Back to sleep for me zzzzzzzzzzzz
Well...stuff that for a joke...haha I have never been one to not speak my mind.
I was feeling lonely, and a bit bored last night. I went surfing the Internet to find amusing things to take my mind off of that boredom and loneliness. Somehow, i came across some blogs that were written by people who are currently sex workers. That can happen when you google "escort blogs nz" haha...I am not singling anyone out, and most of the blogs that i read were blogs of people that i do not know...have never met.
I could not help but notice how every single one of those blogs glamorised the lifestyle, and attempted to make it sound so romantic and fun. These blogs attempt to come across to the reader, as though the writer is this wonderfully, well balanced, educated , and intelligent, worldly woman. She just happens to love having sex with lots of fantastic, and respectful men. Men that would give anything to whisk her away from that life. She instead, chooses to be a hooker because she loves having sex with different men non stop for $200.00 bucks an hour.
PS you can orgasm as many times as you like in your paid time.
I'm sorry. I don't buy it.
I have met a lot of women in that industry, and not one of them wanted to be there. Not one of them was not looking for an alternative to the life that she was leading. Not one of them had aspired to be a hooker when they were growing up. Not one of them looked forward to their next booking. Not one of them had saved any of the money that they had earned with their bodies. Not one of them, was not damaged by something or things, that had happened in their life. Not one of them was happy. Not one of them had romance or glamour in their life...not one of them, including me.
I can't help but express my opinion regarding these blogs, and this form of advertising. I don't think it is setting a good example for young girls. I don't like the fact that my daughters can log in to the Internet and read how glamorous sex work is from people that are currently in that business...I don't like the fact that any young girl out there can do this. I don't like it, because it is not glamorous. These blogs are nothing more than selfish self promotion ,with no concern for setting an example for anyone that might read them.
They are written purely with the aim of creating more business. They are written in the hope that some guy out there will read it and go " I'm going to book her because she is gagging for it...she loves it...not like that chick at the brothel up the road who kept looking at the clock"...
The hooker that loves her job is about as real as the size 6, 6 foot tall woman that all jeans are made to fit...effectively causing me to have to get my jeans hemmed everytime i buy a pair. Where is that 6 foot tall, size 6 woman that those jeans are made for? Probably on the same planet, where the hooker that loves her romantic and glamorous life lives.
I would give examples of what i am talking about but, i do not want to single anyone out, anymore than i want to give these blogs the publicity that they do not deserve. I will keep hunting for an honest "memoir" of being a sex worker. Don't hold your breath.
Apologies for any bubbles i have burst this morning. I just believe that people...especially young girls who could be lured into this lifestyle after reading these fake blogs...have the right to know the truth. If a woman wants to embark on a career as a sex worker then that is fine...but it is not glamorous, or romantic, or even sexy. Everyone needs their eyes opened. At least be honest and let young women out there know what they are getting themselves into.
It is not fun, and any woman in that industry that says otherwise, is lying.
That was my morning rant. Back to sleep for me zzzzzzzzzzzz
Posts
0 comments:
Post a Comment