Or what was going on in our home, prior to me moving out.
If you are in a relationship with someone, you can't expect your friends to like them, if all you do is bitch and moan about them and tell them every bad thing that this person does. If you go out of your way to make that person look bad to your friends...it should not be a surprise when your friends form an opinion based on what you have told them.
I never told anyone anything that was going on in our home, because i wanted people to think i was lucky to have a wonderful husband. I never wanted anyone to think that i was stupid for staying with him...or believing that he was "fishing all night"
Some people can't grasp that concept. Had i gone and told friends how horrible my life was with Danny and what a bad person he was, in relation to the way he treated me...for instance say he was lying to me right up until he knew that i knew the truth about something so had no choice but to confess...i don't think i would then turn around and tell my friends that "they are just like him"
How insulting would that be? Pretty insulting. huh? It would be telling my friend that he is a crazy and manipulative liar.
Just a thought. Some people don't think enough. They should.
It's been a long day. I walked my 7 k and enjoyed the sunshine. I watched a doco on Henry the 8th and his 6 wives, after that. Danny and i used to always be glued to the History channel together. We watched that one together as a matter of fact. Danny now makes Henry seem loving haha....kind of.
I made a trip to pak n save...whipped up a salad for dinner...then ate it while i replied to emails full of drama that i can't really be bothered with. It all reminds me of why i never missed the Internet when Danny and i did not have it at home. It reminds me of why it was so easy to just turn it off and not think about it for 3 years.
I love writing in my blog too much to do that now...but i am done giving good advice based on what i have been told and what i have seen, to only be ignored. 5 days of my breathe went to waste. I'm a smoker...that breathe was precious hahaha
Goodnight you crazy kids.
PS my sheets have just been washed and smelllll soooo nice.