On a more serious note...

How many times does a person have to lie to you, before you realise that they are a liar and can't be trusted?

Don't worry class...i took a long time to figure this one out as well. Take all the time you need. Please write your answer on your exam paper and leave it on my desk at the end of class.

No cheating please.

*School bell rings*

Right...the answer class is ...2.54587 times . That is how many times a person can lie to you before you realise that they are a liar and cannot be trusted.

To ellaborate, I will add...People project their shortfalls on to other people.

Example...

Liars, think everyone else is lying - this is why she does not believe that DK and i are just friends
Cheaters, think that they are always being cheated on and never trust their partners - this is why she does not believe that DK and i are not and have never...had sexual relations
Thieves, think everyone else also steal - that one does not really apply here...that i am aware of anyway.

I am a bit sad this afternoon because my friend that i have known for years and that has helped me a TON these past few months and I, are going our separate ways due to our inability to agree on anything relating to the affair that he is having.
He has shown me email after email of her lying to him, yelling at him, trying to control and manipulate him, then does not understand when i think he is making a terrible mistake, regardless of the fact that he has a wife and children.

I have asked nicely that he not compare the two of us, but he seemed to think the comparison was funny. He fails to realise that my whole opinion of her is based solely on what he has told me.

Anyway DK...i will miss you and will always be your friend. I am here if you ever need me but i cannot condone nor can i sit back and not speak my mind when i see a friend heading towards a downward spiral. Those spirals are no fun...trust me on that one. That ride is damn hard to get off of as well.

Imagine if you had to sit and watch me let my life go back to what it was and I did not listen to any of your advice, even though i knew you were right? It would be hard for you.

Take care buddy...you know i am always here if/when you need me.

PS...the below post was a wind up...she reads this apparently looking for clues that will tell her that DK and i are having sex. phhhttt...he is totally not my type...I like 29 year old cops haha